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my letter to Otis

15th October 2022

Otis Mouat

Oh my goodness, you, my baby Oaty Boaty, are now 5.   There were times when I was in the trenches with our three musketeers all under 4 years old, and it felt like this day would never come, but now it’s here, I can’t really believe it.

It all seems to have happened so fast, yet at the same time, it seems so long ago that I brought you into the world at the Te Awamutu birthing centre. 

The second you were born, I felt so complete.  You were, and still are, the glue that holds us altogether.  You’re our peacemaker.  You’re the one who mediates conflicts, and finds a middle ground between our rational-thinking Archie and our emotive-driven Bossy. 

Your arrival created a world where I really had my hands (and heart) full, so you would spend hours snuggled in the Moby wrap like a little koala bear.  You loved it and I loved it.  I think it helped us both find some calm amongst the chaos.  

You can also have almighty tantrums.  You’re not patient.  You’re easily frustrated.  And you’re a terrible loser, no matter what game is being played.  But, you’re just as easily cheered up.  With you, no mad, bad, sad moment lasts long.  You find the fun in life, and spend so much of every day giggling. 

You are an absolute trooper hiking and biking with “the big boys”.  You’ve conquered Mt Kakepuku, Mt Tauhara, Mt Maunganui, and the Hakarimatas.

You’ve always loved doing jobs, helping others, and keeping yourself busy.  You are content in your own company and I often find you outside pottering around, using your imagination to do “farm work” in the backyard.   

As you’ve got older, your cuddles have decreased, and your independence has increased.

Sometimes I’ve found that hard. 

I’ll miss our Wednesday home day, and I know Daddy will miss his Thursday home day with you.  Even though we often had lots of errands to run and jobs to do on Wednesdays, doing it with you, always made it so much better.  Your constant chat and cheeky grin brightens every day.

I know when it comes time to say goodbye to you at the classroom, you’ll be braver than me.  You’ll have the love and support of your two best friends, Archie and Hugo, and you won’t need me. 

Whilst that hurts, it also makes me so so proud.

So my darling, go and be a big 5 year old.  Suck up the school years of sitting in a classroom, learn what you can, and before you know it, you’ll get your heart and head back outside to a life on the farm.

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My hour of doing nothing. Absolutely nothing.

13th December 2020

Here’s how (and why)…

On Thursday it was our work Christmas celebration, and to treat ourselves, we decided to have an afternoon of pampering at Waitomo Day Spa.

Waitomo Day Spa float pod
Waitomo Day Spa floatation pod

I was first up for the float.

I’m not going to lie; I was nervous.

I have an active mind, a busy life, and a pretty epic ‘to do’ list, so the thought of lying still in a confined space for an entire hour was pretty confronting. And it also felt like a pretty big waste of time.

But, despite my hesitations, I was game to give it a go. I’ve always been someone who is committed to creating a “life resume” defined by experiences rather than a “work resume” defined by expertise, so I was putting this float down as just another one of my crazy endeavours.

We arrived and completed the obligatory paperwork, and then I was shown to the room. And there it was. The spaceship-like floatation pod.

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open letter to Hugo on his 5th birthday

16th August 2020

Boss, somehow you’re now 5!

Even as I write it, I can’t comprehend that tomorrow you will be off to school. It has been such a roller coaster 5 years, and just when I feel I finally “get” you, I’m losing you.

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my open letter to Archie on his 5th birthday

9th May 2019

I’ve juggled motherhood with businesshood for five of the six years I’ve been in business, and tomorrow Archie turns 5!  This is my letter to him (warning, it’s a novel):

Archie, you took forever to come into this world. We were ready, you weren’t.

15 days after your due date, when April had become May, you finally started making your move and 34 hours later, I held you for the first time. It was 10:30pm the day before Mother’s Day. You looked battered and bruised, but alert and calm, and you filled me with confidence that I could totally do this mummy-gig.

You gave me such an easy start. From the very beginning you showed me the ropes of this new life as a family of three. You fed well and slept well and went through the night from 7 months old.
Everyone said you seemed like such an old soul; maybe someone who had been here before.

And that wise way hasn’t left you.

But somehow, 5 years have gone by.

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this parenting gig

10th March 2019

Parenting is a tough gig.  It’s basically like doing an apprenticeship but without anyone to teach you the theory side.  It’s practical from day one, and it’s all ‘on the job’ training.

And there’s no qualification to work towards.

For someone like me, with an academic background, that’s tough.  I’ve spent thousands of dollars gaining a Bachelor’s degree and an MBA as ‘proof’ that I’m good at what I do, and in the professional world, that counts for something.  The qualifications give me confidence that I do know what I’m doing.

But as a parent, it’s different.

I feel like I’m constantly in limbo, teetering between thinking I’ve totally nailed it one day, and the next day, thinking I’ve plummeted from top of the class to the absolute bottom.

This weekend epitomised how tough it is.

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goal setting

5th January 2019

I used to be obsessed with making new years’ resolutions.  I’d vow to eat healthier, exercise more, swear less.  They were pretty arbitrary pledges and more often than not, I’d completely forgotten what they were once the second week of January hit, which means it was a pretty pointless endeavour.

Once I started in the working world, my new years’ resolutions became “goals” for the year.  A fancier term, but essentially the same result.  Again, they were crazy promises that were too whimsical, too unfocused, and quite frankly, too hard to keep.

Since then, through my own experiences, doing some study, reading books, and following successful business people around the world, I’ve learnt about the art of setting goals that inspire you, motivate you, and drive you to smash them out of the park.

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this incredible community

12th December 2018

Putting down roots in a new town is massive.  If you’ve done it before, you’ll know what I mean.  It’s such a crazy scary thing.

And starting a small business in a small town is crazy scary too.  There are just so many unknowns that you really feel like you’re taking a gamble.

Before I made the move here to Otorohanga I spent a fair few sleepless nights wondering what I would be getting myself into.

I wondered if the district was somewhere you could start a business, and make it a success.
I wondered if it’d be a nice place to raise a family.
I wondered if I’d make friends.
I wondered if there was passion. Energy. A sense of community.

I wondered if it was a town living or dying.

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getting in the arena

19th November 2018

Last Friday night, I got in the arena, in front of 110 people.

Nicki and I had worked hard over many months to take Empowering Women from a crazy idea to an actual event and on the night, I knew it was my job to pull it off. Nicki had done the mahi behind the scenes, and now it was up to me to make it a stellar night.

I was MC, arguably the toughest gig at any event, because really your job is never done.  You can’t just say your piece and then enjoy a vino.  You have to show up over and over again, throughout the whole night.

And public speaking is one of my biggest fears.

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why I started the working women’s tribe

14th August 2018

A couple of months ago I had the opportunity to meet with other female business owners as part of a newly forming networking group in Hamilton.

Roadworks meant it took longer to get there than I had anticipated and I battled finding a park in the big smoke, but I made it.

And I had a nice time.  The Tank salad was delicious.  My boy Otis charmed everyone, and I scored extra brownie points because I happened to be wearing a dress made by Hayley Addison from Addison Clothing who was there too. No better way to show your support of small NZ business than by sporting their wears!

During the catch up, we went around the table and each of the 25 ladies introduced themselves and their business.  They rattled off their achievements, future business goals and strategic plans, and all had an impressive resume – it was a group of self-starters who’d forged their way in a predominately male business world.

Almost as an after-thought, they mentioned the fact that they were a mum.

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life as a working mum

29th July 2018

I started eight73 consulting in 2013.  It was a month before I became a wife, and 15 months before I became a  mum.  For that first year, my business was my baby.  It was pretty all-consuming, physically and mentally, and the responsibility I felt to keep the business alive was at times intense.

I was torn betwmy familyeen spending time developing the business through approaching new potential clients, while also investing in nurturing the partnerships I’d already secured, and of course delivering to the work I had on.  There were never enough hours in the day and I constantly felt like I was chasing my tail.

And then, in May 2014, just as my business was really starting to hit its straps with consistent work from strong partnerships I’d developed, and a steady pipeline of referrals, I had a baby, a real baby.  A real life human being who’s sole survival depended on me.  I had to think and act for Archie all day and all night, on top of running a business.

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